Enough is Enough

Ok so after six long years of marriage I've come to the unmistakable conclusion that my husband and I have no idea how to communicate. Our issue of the week is babies. My husband has expressed to me that he would like more children and my answer to that is definitely not. Early in our marriage I let him know that I had no desire to have children after thirty and I still feel that way today. For four long days we've not had much to talk about. He's been rather distant and I guess I can understand why. The question here is how does one deal with such issues without allowing those issues to destroy the marriage. There has to be some sort of compromise. What we decided to do was give it another year to see if he still feels the same about having children. This sounds like a plan right now but I'm terrified to see what next year will bring. While the distance between us is coming to an end the questions and concerns still remain. Hopefully we can meet in the middle.