Most men come equip with this amazing mechanism that allows them to appear as if they're hearing every word a woman is saying without actually paying any attention at all. Could it be that men simply think that what a woman has to say is really unimportant or could it be that women present what they have to say in such a way that men are forced to turn a deaf ear? Either way listening to what your lady has to say allows her to get some things off her chest and shows her that you are concerned about her feelings. Men I know it's hard for you to really focus especially when you feel like your woman is nagging or that you're being attacked but if you allow her feelings to be your top priority eventually a lot of your relationship issues will disappear.
I talked to a gentleman earlier today that had been married for 31 years, he told me that the secret to a successful partnership is communication and honesty. Immediately I started to wonder if he had ever grown so annoyed with his wife that he just had to stop listening in order to keep the peace in their household. Maybe he was right, maybe communication is key but for communication to work both parties has to not just listen but also pay attention to what the other party has to say.
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